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When it becomes apparent that sympathy has remained undivided, sadness and depression rolls over. After all, as long as a person lives in hope, he is happy, and as soon as this hope is crushed, a void is revealed in life. But if you think about it, then this emptiness is not real. It was not filled with the presence of a living person, joint experiences, plans. It was precisely the dreams that endowed the person with those qualities that he himself most likely did not even guess about. But because this particular person did not show mutual sympathy, life does not stop. This is a chance to finally become a realist and learn to value yourself a little more.

Mirror view of the situation

To begin with, it is enough for a moment to swap places with your sympathy and imagine the situation exactly the opposite. The young man, realizing that he cannot achieve reciprocity, dries in front of his eyes, sees off the object of his passion with a pained gaze, and in every possible way isolates himself from the world, being in a deep depression. What will the girl feel? Irritation, bewilderment, pity, and in especially severe cases, it may completely lose respect for a person who is unable to adequately endure life's failures. You can’t command the heart!

And now the second scenario: instead of the expected suffering, the guy shows complete indifference. It didn’t work out - it doesn’t matter, there are plenty of young ladies around and better. What does a girl feel at such a turn of affairs? Surprise, annoyance, latent sense of mediocrity.

Upon returning from behind the looking glass to the real situation, suffering will immediately change over. Why prove to the uncomplicated gentleman that the light on him came together in a wedge, fueling his complacency? No, let him know that he was on the agenda only for lack of a better one.

Almighty hen party

Men fear women's gatherings. Numerous friends, in their opinion, can thoroughly rinse a girl’s brain and set her up differently than they would like. It is worth using this destructive power of women's gatherings in order to look at a guy who did not reciprocate with completely different eyes.

Having gathered all your friends and sharing the situation, in one evening you can hear enough about the failed gentleman such that all his exceptional qualities will fly to dust. Out of a sense of female solidarity, each of her friends will try her best to express all the negative that she knows about him, and what she does not know, too. They are indifferent to him, which means that there are no pink glasses that surround any pimple on his face with a romantic halo.

Reasonable Selfishness

How a person evaluates what is happening to him depends a lot on the degree of his love for himself. Magnanimous people are more likely to blame refusals on the short-sightedness of the candidate than on their insolvency. It's time to treat yourself, beloved, with something, and at the same time to raise your self-esteem.

You can arrange yourself a spa day without forgetting about any part of the body - let everything relax and smell fragrant. Baths for arms and legs, massages, wraps and masks - you can use all that is not enough time in everyday life. This is a very effective procedure for women: any manipulation of appearance raises their mood incredibly, and as a result, their longing for ephemeral loss is weakened. Alternatively, you can experiment with the image. A new hair color, hairstyle or at least make-up is so symbolic: life begins with a blank page. And let him see that he missed.

Substitution rule

According to all the canons, something unwanted can be erased from memory most quickly by replacing it with stronger impressions. This prompts many abandoned women to embark on a real revelry, which only empties themselves emotionally and inflicts spiritual wounds on innocent people who are “lucky” to meet them on the way. Such healing is useless. As long as there is someone in the heart, it will still be deaf to others. You need to force a person out of your head with impressions of a completely different kind, not related to heart matters.

It is worth using this period of time for the benefit of yourself: why not try to do something that until now seemed unthinkable or inspired fear? You can sign up for driving courses, go to a ski simulator or a climbing training stand, ride a troll or a zorb, master skates or organize leisure activities in a go-kart club. Not only will there be enough impressions for a month ahead, but also the awareness of overcoming fear will raise self-esteem by many steps up and will allow you to look at recent sadness with a detached look. Guaranteed to help and easy extreme in the form of a burning tour: the next morning you can bask in a deck chair by the sea, and suddenly among the spontaneous fellow travelers will be someone special?

There are actually many options for forgetting a guy. If you try everything, there will simply be no time to be sad. And time will inexorably continue its countdown, simultaneously healing the spiritual wounds. The main thing is to constantly remind yourself that any trouble is an invaluable life experience, thanks to which you can better know yourself and your strengths.

Alina Sysoeva

Psychologist, coach and trainer. Specialist from the site b17.ru

Imagine how he smashes, Imagine how his food stuck between his teeth rots and stinks.

I have the same problem. Trying to get the young lover out of my head :-) How do I do this? Self-hypnosis! I began to find his cons. It turns out that his figure is so-so (a small tummy), outwardly, although he is pretty, he’s nothing unusual. sex. hmm. I've been better. :-) And in general, what did I find in it? There are almost no pluses! You know. helps. I really began to believe that he was far from ideal. and feelings somehow began to disappear.

all the men wipe their ass badly and there is such a stench.

I join the author. only I have this miracle at work, or something (((((

ahahah)))))) shit and stinks agaga rots))))) I'm shocked by a joke!

kill yourself against the wall, fools. immediately forget everything

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it’s time for you to kill yourself against the wall, nothing to write silent. negative sheep
by the way, girls have good advice to quarrel with someone, that is, to merge emotions (negative or positive for someone else.

when at work it’s generally tin, you see him every day, it's hard.
especially if without reciprocity

when at work it’s generally tin, you see him every day, it's hard. especially if without reciprocity

we’ll be a plus to the truth, I don’t know how your girls are, and I came to the conclusion that there are not so many really good lovers

it’s time for you to kill yourself against the wall, nothing to write silent. negative sheep
by the way, girls have good advice to quarrel with someone, that is, to merge emotions (negative or positive for someone else.

there is no future with him, what to think about him, forget and delete all contacts)))

we are bored even from such half-fucked like you, here the girls write everyone has at least something to remember, but you have nothing to remember about, and here you are. you as you say even take advantage of it disdain, nasty and unpleasant brawler. I usually don’t react to messages like yours, but since I’m in a bad mood today, I’ll be happy to tell you what I think. what do you think you are the only one that you can write different nasty things. that you’ve got into a topic once you don’t share its interests and you don’t think about anyone. Well, sit alone all so correct without a microchip.

yes, the fact that there is no future with him is clear on the other hand, life somehow changes when there is someone to think about, you want to become better at your place

Have sex with someone and his image will quickly disappear from memory. Checked more than once, it works.

I don’t agree with you, his image will disappear only if this new one is better, and if it is worse, disappointment will come

Not right, you are alone and he is in your memory. You have two of them and the passion for him is already half, and in life, as soon as you have another member, you’ll think about who is in you and compare it with the former, only when you part with the present, the past pops up in your memory. We are all so arranged.

1) Go headlong to work (I didn’t like it)))
awesome. and who may like the job in general? if you do not take crazy workaholics.
2) Tasty to eat (I tried it, and now the cellulite problem has been added to the problem of the lost lover)
there’s no need for that.
3) remove it from everywhere (I tried it, it’s impossible; his photo on the computer screen saver looks so harmonious))))
Have you definitely TESTED? you would have made yourself a tattoo with his name, because looks good.
4) make new acquaintances (tried but they are all some kind of superficial
yeah, but you must immediately groom oligarch probably
5) go to sports (yes I think to sign up and preferably for martial arts.
and martial arts with what help? although, given paragraph 2, sport will not bother you

I made a list of all the advantages in it.
and then translated the pros into cons

all the men wipe their ass badly and there is such a stench.

yes what is it, here is the fact that you’re reading from above and you don’t want the mizhik exactly))

Not right, you are alone and he is in your memory. You have two of them and the passion for him is already half, and in life, as soon as you have another member, you’ll think about who is in you and compare it with the former, only when you part with the present, the past pops up in your memory. We are all so arranged.

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How to forget a guy

How to forget a guy? In this century, Internet addiction can be easily found on the resources of the World Wide Web, thousands of links containing tips on the topic: "How can a girl forget a guy?". After turning over a pile of girlish youth magazines, you can also find some useful recommendations. However, in most cases, following the recommendations and following the advice will only help you get distracted, but it will hardly help forgetting your loved one. For a quick and painless elimination of his image from memory, more active actions by the young ladies and a positively directed attitude will be required.

In addition, it will not be amiss to draw up a step-by-step strategy for erasing a guy from thoughts and heart. Also, it’s worth trying to understand that there are no irreplaceable males, that there are millions of guys, and a girl who is tormented by the search for answers to an urgent question: “how to forget my beloved guy” is alone with her. After all, if the beloved did not have enough time or opportunities to appreciate the former darling, then this should become his problem only. And it is recommended that the representative of the female part of the population stop being sad, put a smile on a pretty face, raise her eyes, powder her nose, tint her lips and go to decorate the world, putting on an elegant modest dress and stilettos. And in the process of such “decoration” it will not be superfluous to “shoot” with your eyes in search of a new gentleman, who, of course, will not replace the ex-boyfriend, but is ideal for distracting from sorrowful thoughts and raising the mood.

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