Each person’s duty is to live their unique, unique and such short life is interesting. You can not relax and be distracted from this task. Otherwise, it will become boring to live and you will have to spend your precious time on fighting boredom.
If the moment is missed, and boredom is intrusive in life, then you will have to change yourself. This must be done correctly. You won’t have to invent anything complicated - the brain is looking for a short way to pleasure.
Boredom is a good sign. If they experience it, it means that in life at the moment there are no tragedies and dramas. Otherwise, you would have experienced completely different feelings. Boredom is not a very strong opponent. With some effort, defeating her is not difficult.
Reasons for boredom
Interestingly, do animals get bored, or is this peculiar only to the children of civilization? For something, nature needed to supply us with this quality. Perhaps this is our brain that wants to switch us from one familiar thing to another. So boring can be at school or at work
Solving the mysteries of nature is a hopeless affair. It is better to admit that boredom is an unpleasant condition. Not fatal, but unpleasant. And maybe fatal.
There are people who are not very funny by nature. They were born like that, and the surrounding fun will be uncomfortable for them. Calm down on their account and take care of those who want to get rid of this condition.
Lack of friends as a cause of boredom
With friends it can be boring and fun, we choose friends. Unlike parents. There are criteria for choosing people with whom it is interesting to communicate. Sometimes we forget that they too should be interesting to us. It is not necessary to impose on others the obligation to amuse others. Friendship by definition implies equality.
Most often, friends are made in youth when they communicate with their peers.
Take the initiative - call, offer to meet, communicate on the Internet.
Then making friends will be more difficult, but possible. When you are in the company, the likelihood of traveling, hiking, playing sports increases. Together you can go to a football match, cheer for your favorite team, then celebrate the victory.
If you are the initiator, you will be perceived as a leader. And this is nice. There will be no time to be bored - you need to consider future plans.
Sometimes having a hobby for a person means more than the main job. For the reason already mentioned - we choose it ourselves.
The great chemist Mendeleev made suitcases at his leisure. Gogol was fond of cooking.
Do not be shy and you are your hobbies. They do not have to be useful. A very exciting pastime is collecting.
After acquiring a rare exhibit, which had to be chased for a long time, a feeling of euphoria arises.
Remember how long you attended a concert, went to the cinema.
Sitting every day on the couch in front of the TV is not considered an equivalent replacement. After visiting a concert of modern music, you will have a desire to turn the whole world around. Far from boredom.
A stupid person and alone will find entertainment in his imagination. In Stefan Zweig’s “Chess Novel,” a prisoner in solitary confinement withstood and did not give out the information that was required of him, only because he was accidentally hit by a tutorial on a game of chess. Being able to occupy yourself under any circumstances is a very useful skill.
No second half
There is a hobby, the computer does not let you get bored, but there is no girl. The world is black and white, and should be colored. Use dating sites. Even learning them is a very exciting experience. If you are a guy, you can feel like a padishah who, with an important appearance, chooses a concubine. Girls will like the increased attention to their person from the guys.
If there is a problem with finding new acquaintances, you should mention it, no matter who you are talking to. There will be your friend or acquaintance of your mother who has a sister / brother, girlfriend / friend, also without couples. Try to meet and go to the cafe. Even if the prospective partner became bored, it doesn’t matter, at least they drank delicious coffee.
Looking well-groomed is a duty to others who are forced to look at us. Watching yourself is a sign of respect for others. There are few lucky people who always look attractive. This is usually a daily painstaking work.
The cosmetics industry presents such a wide range that acquiring such products is a matter of choice, not search. Properly applied makeup can make an attractive girl with any natural data.
On the shelves of stores with cosmetic and perfumery products you can see almost equally funds intended for women and men. This must be considered when buying.
Men have rougher skin, therefore, in creams designed for them, the components are in a more concentrated form.
Now imagine how you are thoughtful in front of products that can transform you, and mentally try on yourself. Are you bored now?
Do not forget to regularly visit the hairdresser.
Tidy up your body
Even if you are now slim like a gazelle, things can change over the years. You have to start taking care of yourself when you are young. Like everything you do for yourself, this is very exciting. Gyms, fitness, aerobics, pool are waiting for you. Apart are the dances, which are both art and gymnastics. Latin American dances give birth to a holiday that stays with you for a long time.
There is a view where only one woman is allowed to enter - oriental dances. Contrasting with the male world. Belly dance teaches with gestures to offer itself, then to repel. Which corresponds to the recommendations of modern manuals to attract men.
First you need to make an audit of your cabinets. Remove all clothing that you have not used for a long time. Do not store old clothes in case "if you have to dye something." The order in the house is the order in the soul.
Rearrange the furniture in the apartment. You will feel like you are in a new space. Novelty always destroys boredom.
If you work, then a great way to change your usual way is to search and then take a new job.
The cause of a dreary mood may be your current job that you hate.
Once your parents chose your institute for their reasons. Then, according to the distribution, you got to work. You are an engineer, and you want to be a tuner of musical instruments.
Do not listen to the choir of protesting voices. Your life. Live it as you like.
Only you can decide what is good for you.
Any change is stressful. Sometimes stress is negative, but it is also positive. At first, at the first time, everyone strives to show their best. They try not to evade work, but to delve into its features. It is necessary to join the new team, which meets all strangers with caution. You should study and accept the rules of conduct that are adopted here.
Change your daily routine
Change your appearance, dye your hair a different color. Blondes will become red, and brown-haired brunettes. Get to work the other way. Take it and don't sleep one night. At this time of day, everything seems a little different.
Friendly to the colleague with whom you are hostile, and enjoy his surprise. If you still sat in quiet cooperatives, make a toast. Only be careful in this situation. It is quite possible that a girl who sits on her lap beside a friendly smiling boss and thinks “Life is a success!” Will be asked to write a statement of their own accord tomorrow.
If you continue to do what you did before, you will receive what you received before.
Change your diet
If you are accustomed to starting the morning with oatmeal, prepare yourself a fried potato with brisket. Once you can.
Cook food that you have not tried before. There are many different recipes on the Internet. Visit these sites. Try the cuisine of different countries. Compare them. Any knowledge makes us stronger.
Watch movies not from the area you're used to. Change romance novels and detective stories to non-fiction and vice versa.
Buy products not in the nearest store, as usual, but on the other side of the city.
Invite friends you have not seen for years.
Embark on a journey
To visit other places is a cardinal change of scenery. Your eyes will see other landscapes, your ears will hear other sounds. There is a case for other senses. You should not spend the same vacation every year.
There are many possibilities, you can’t master them all. But strive for this. Now there is an opportunity to visit almost any country. And they are all so different.
Our talents are limited. As a child, we were drawn a circle of boundaries, which we are inclined to, and what should not be done. Break this circle - creativity brings so much pleasure.
You could have heard from a drawing teacher at school that, in his enlightened opinion, you picked up a pencil for the first time.
It is easy to submit his reviews about the work of Dali, Picasso and the Impressionists, if he saw their paintings for the first time. Surely they received such reviews from their contemporaries.
The subjective opinion of a primary school teacher is firmly entrenched in the subconscious and forbade you to receive one of the pleasures. Do not immediately set a goal to organize an exhibition of your works.
Get pencils, paints, brushes in a specialty store. Read some articles on the Internet on this topic. Give it a try! Your loved ones will not believe that these are your works - it was always believed that you were not capable of this.
You can start singing, crocheting, not knitting, and crafting birdhouses. Listen to your soul and do what she asks, like a cartoon girl:
In order to get other results in your life, you need to change your thinking. Your task is to make it positive. The world is not bad and not good, it is the way you see it.
What to do with yourself
Ahead of the weekend, and you have no idea how to spend it profitably? Sometimes there are times when you really do not know what to do on your free day. You can, of course, spend it at home on the couch in front of the TV. But is this the way to success? And here, I believe, promising people have gathered. So lazy and useless pastime is definitely not for us.
I admit, a completely free day, on which no business was planned, is extremely rare for me. As a rule, I make plans in advance and do not rack my brains over what to entice myself with.
When the weekend finally turned out, I realized that I had no idea how to usefully spend such a day. Has this happened to you?
However, in ten minutes of thought, I decided what to do. If you have nothing to do, you should carry yourself away with something. A whole list of cases appeared in my head, which grew more and more. So that you do not get bored this weekend, but spend them productively, I offer you ten best ideas for hanging out.
The time has come to admit, how long have you been doing spring cleaning in your apartment? Or maybe it's time to take apart the closet and get rid of old unnecessary things? Household chores never end. And if you decide to completely tidy the apartment, then one day may not be enough.
In addition to washing windows, ironing and dusting, you can unload your life. Not sure how to do this? Go through all the drawers, cabinets and shelves in the apartment. And without pity, send away unnecessary things. Everything old that has not been worn or used by you for a long time should make room for something new and more necessary.
How much I have already talked about the benefits of reading, and not to mention. With any free minute, you should pick up a book and plunge into your imagination. And when there are so many free hours ahead, then for this purpose you can occupy yourself not only with literature!
Self-development should always have a place in your life. Improving yourself as a person is very important for a person and increases his confidence.
Which way to go? There are many options. Perhaps you have long wanted to take up the study of a new foreign language? It's time! Special programs will help you with this.
Trainings on topics of interest to you will take free hours and will definitely give a positive result. But what about video courses! Did you dream of becoming a copywriter? It's time to watch some training videos on this topic.
So, the mass of options. Perhaps you can suggest something in the comments, write and share ideas.
Hands create, and the soul rests. It’s great if you already have such a passion for the soul. You are very proud to devote yourself to him, and time for this will not be a pity. But if you are still in search of such an activity, then on the Internet you will easily find many interesting workshops. Definitely, you will like something.
I am a creative person and I love hard work. Previously, everything was limited to banal drawing, knitting and origami, but now there are examples of much more interesting activities in the public domain. It is worth entering a query into a search engine. And in a few steps you will make an unusual and beautiful thing using a technique that you had no idea about before.
What about photography? Now is the time to grab your camera or phone and go to the forest for colorful pictures of nature.
Have nothing to do? Sit down to work! Perfect advice, isn't it? Just think how many hours you have wasted. But during this time you are able to earn money without leaving your home. Have you decided to spend your day off on the couch because the window is cold and raining? No problem. Pick up a laptop and instead of the series, hammer in a search engine: copywriting exchanges, sites on which they write reviews, or finally take on your blog. Rest, of course, is necessary. But, what could be better, combining rest with work. Although it sounds like a paradox!
Educational activities with children
I highlighted this point separately from self-development. Because here you need to tackle the development of a little man. If you do not have children, then do not rush to skip it. Better take a note for the future. If there is, you should pause and read even more carefully.
It is very important for each parent that the child gain knowledge and develop more useful skills. And whose, if not the parental task, help him in this.
You got a day off, and your kid is not in kindergarten or school, take up exciting activities! You will find many interesting development options on the Internet. They will captivate the child and allow the adult to plunge into childhood. You can sculpt and craft, create an unusual plot of the game and develop your imagination. And most importantly, time flies behind such a thing.
Have you always put off running jogging on Monday? So, your “Monday” has arrived. Have a great time and take care of yourself.
In the morning, several gymnastic exercises and morning exercises will help you cheer up.
Before dinner, shake the press for special lessons.
And in the evening it will be ideal to go to the park for a jog in the fresh air. Just imagine how to charge your body! An evening run and fresh air will put your thoughts in order and ensure a good night's sleep.
Perhaps you have long been idle for a gym membership. So, you need to use it and go to training.
Remember that sport is life. And spend your time on it is quite reasonable.
The weather is great outside and you feel great. Everything leads to the fact that without hesitation take what is needed and go on a picnic into the forest! Engage your family members or friends. Pack snacks and hot tea in a thermos in a backpack, grab a blanket and a guitar. Now you can go to relax in nature.
And if you take a camera with you, then combine two useful things at once.
Many people so rarely go to the movies and do not even know what they are now showing on the screens. Perhaps a new movie with your favorite actor has come out! And on the street day and there is no suitable company for a trip to the cinema? This should not stop you. Take popcorn with you, good mood and go there alone. In addition, it will be useful to visit the theater and museum. Bring yourself to the culture.
Such a tasty and exciting thing is cooking! You do not need to be a professional for this! You should experiment a little, and you will create an author's recipe. And your loved ones will appreciate the new dish with pleasure.
Try baking muffins, a curd muffin or making meringues. The process will captivate you, and a delicious smell emanating from the oven will cheer you up. Beautiful cooked pastries on the table will definitely give rise to little pride.
It’s great if you involve the child in the process. It will bring you closer. And the baby will provide a vivid experience and play an appetite. In addition, you will be less distracted from business. In this case, it will take more time, but it's worth it!
Make plans for the future
It's time to think about your near future. Relax and dream. Think about who and where you would like to see yourself in ten years. Впереди еще много времени, но пора ставить цели и маленькими шагами идти к их осуществлению. Как это правильно делать читайте в этой статье.
Возможно, в повседневной жизни вы мало заботитесь о своем будущем и не придаете значения размышлениям на эту тему. Very vain! This needs to be fixed. A person who has before his eyes an idea of his future life is motivated for success. He knows what he wants and knows how he will achieve it. Decide on your life goals.
Living in a modern frantic rhythm with a huge flow of information makes us relax less. And when the weekend comes, our desire is just to take a break from the daily routine. But over time, it becomes boring and the question arises in my head: "What can be done when there is nothing to do at home?" You lie on the sofa and think, think. And the day is over. So that such situations do not happen again, and you are energized, I advise you to do useful things. When you take up one of them, you will have a desire to do something else. And you will understand how stupid it is to spend your day off lying and thinking about what to do with yourself. Take it and do it!
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